Düşük Yapmış Evli Kadınların Bağlanma Yaralanmaları ile İlişki Doyumları Arasındaki İlişkinin İncelenmesi

Bu çalışmanın amacı; düşük yapmış evli kadınların bağlanma yaralanmaları ile ilişki doyumları arasındaki ilişkiyi incelemektir. Çalışmanın araştırma grubunu evliliği süresince en az bir kez düşük yapmış 152 evli kadın oluşturmaktadır. Araştırmada veri toplamak amacıyla “Kişisel Bilgi Formu”, “Evlilikte Bağlanma Yaralanmaları Ölçeği” ve “İlişki Doyum Ölçeği” kullanılmıştır. Verilerin analizinde betimsel istatistikler, Pearson Momentler Çarpımı Korelasyon Analizi, Basit Doğrusal Regresyon Analizi, Mann Whitney U Testi ve Kruskal Wallis H Testi kullanılmıştır. Araştırmadan elde edilen bulgulara göre düşük yapmış evli kadınların bağlanma yaralanmaları ile ilişki doyumları arasında olumsuz yönde anlamlı ilişkiler bulunmaktadır. Çocuk sahibi olan düşük yapmış evli kadınların bağlanma yaralanması düzeyleri çocuk sahibi olmayanlardan daha düşükken, ilişki doyumları daha yüksektir. Ayrıca düşük yapmış evli kadınların çocuk sayıları arttıkça bağlanma yaralanması düzeyi azalırken, ilişki doyumları da artmaktadır. Son olarak düşük yapmış evli kadınların bağlanma yaralanmaları ve ilişki doyumlarının katılımcıların düşük deneyiminden nasıl etkilendiklerine ilişkin ifadelerine göre de farklılaştığı bulunmuştur. Düşük yapmanın ilişkilerini olumsuz etkilediğini ifade edenlerin bağlanma yaralanması düzeyleri, diğerlerine göre daha yüksektir. Çalışmadan elde edilen bulgular alanyazına dayalı olarak tartışılmıştır.

Analysis of the relationship between attachment injuries and relationship satisfaction in married women who have experienced miscarriage

The aim of this study is to examine the relationship between attachment injuries and relationship satisfaction of married women who have had abortions. The research group of the study consists of 152 married women who have had at least one miscarriage during their marriage. "Personal Information Form", "Marital Attachment Injuries Scale" and "Relationship Satisfaction Scale" were used to collect data in the study. Descriptive statistics, Pearson Product-Moment Correlation Analysis, Simple Linear Regression Analysis, Mann Whitney U Test and Kruskal Wallis H Test were used in the analysis of the data. According to the findings of the study, there are negative significant relationships between attachment injuries and relationship satisfaction of married women who have had abortion. Married women with children who have had abortions have lower attachment injury levels than those without children, while their relationship satisfaction is higher. In addition, as the number of children of married women who have had abortion increases, the level of attachment injury decreases, while their relationship satisfaction increases. Finally, it was found that attachment injuries and relationship satisfaction of married women who had abortion differed according to the participants' statements about how they were affected by the abortion experience. Those who stated that a miscarriage had a negative impact on their relationships had higher levels of attachment injury than the others. The findings obtained from the study were discussed based on the literature.

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