ŞİDDETİN FARKLI BİR YÜZÜ: FLÖRT ŞİDDETİ, ETKİLERİ VE ETKİLEYEN FAKTÖRLER

Şiddetin alt dallarından biri olan ve genellikle ergenler ve gençleri etkileyen flört şiddeti “çiftlerin flörtilişkisinde birbirine karşı sözel, cinsel, duygusal ve fiziksel şiddet ya da şiddet içeren davranışlar uygulaması vebirbirlerinin davranışlarına sosyal kısıtlamalar getirmesidir”. Flört şiddeti sadece endişe verici yaygınlığınedeniyle değil, fiziksel ve zihinsel sağlık üzerine olan olumsuz etkileri nedeniyle de toplumda görülen önemli birproblemdir. Flört şiddetinin neden olduğu bazı sorunlar anksiyete, depresyon, intihar girişimleri, alkol kullanımıve riskli cinsel davranışlardır. Flört şiddeti; fiziksel, psikolojik/duygusal, sözel ve cinsel şiddet olarak ortayaçıkmaktadır ve ebeveynler tarafından cezalandırılma, flört şiddeti mağduru arkadaşın varlığı, toplumsal cinsiyetrollerine ilişkin geleneksel kalıp yargıların benimsenmesi, alkol/madde kullanımı gibi bazı faktörler flört şiddetiriskini arttırmaktadır. Sorunun çözümüne yönelik olarak atılması gereken adımlar flört şiddeti farkındalığınınarttırılması ve risk faktörlerinin tanımlanmasıdır. Flört şiddetinin önlenmesi, tanılanması ve tedavisine yönelikolarak hemşirelerin de önemli rolleri bulunmaktadır.

A Different Side of Violence: Dating Violence, Effects and Influencing Factors

Dating violence, one of the sub-branches of violence, usually affects adolescents and young people, is that " couples commit verbal, sexual, emotional and physical violence or display violent behaviors against each other, and bring social restrictions on each other's behaviors in dating relation ". Dating violence is an important problem in society not only due to worrisome prevalence but also because of its negative effects on physical and mental health. Some of the problems that arises as a result of dating violence are anxiety, depression, suicide attempts, alcohol use and risky sexual behavior. Dating violence includes physical, psychological / emotional, verbal and sexual violence and some factors such as parental punishment, have a friend who has been exposed to dating violence, alcohol and substance use and have tranditional attitudes towards gender roles increase the risk of dating violence. The steps that need to be taken to solve the problem are increasing the awareness of dating violence and defining risk factors. Nurses also play important roles in prevention, diagnosis and treatment of dating violence.

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