The aim of this research is try to point out irresolution between the ethic and the sexuality, in general reluctant modernization experiments which lead conservative Muslims into the practical obscure, In this research, it will be attempted to come to the point which aimes the salvation from the dilemma of ethic-sexuality. At the meantime, it will be also questioned the orientalist understanding proveked by inability of academic and intellectual represantation. In addition, it will be critisized some scientific textx written for guidence to the modern muslims who live continuously under irresolution between here and hereafter and also feel hasitation to sacrifice one of them in a way