Öz Behaving kind to parents, making them happy, serving their needs iS considered important by Islam as the other religions also do. This service especially becomes an important condition in the old age period. This natural demand has turned to dependence by widening the limits of the word "obedience", An obedience of making all of the things wished by the parenis' obstacles the development of the personalily. The Quran wants to respeet to parents but did not want a , life dependent to them like a satellite. it is possible that a person can take and apply his decisions himself and have a good relationship with his parents "at the same time.