Sühendan ER, Tuba ÖZGÜL, Nergis Hazal YILMAZTÜRK, Figen ÇOK

Anababaların Çocuklarıyla İlgili Sosyal Medya Paylaşımları

Sosyal medya ortamlarına her geçen gün biraz daha fazla kişi dâhil olmaktadır. Dünyada ve Türkiye’de henüz yeni bir kavram olan anababaların sosyal medyada çocukları ile ilgili yaptıkları paylaşımlar konusuna ilişkin sınırlı bilgi birikimi bu çalışmada derlenmeye çalışılmıştır. Çalışmada günümüzde oldukça yaygın hale gelen anababaların çocuklarına ait bilgilerin, fotoğrafların veya videoların sosyal medyada paylaşılması, anababaların çocuklarıyla ilgili neler paylaştıkları ve bu paylaşımların olası nedenleri duygu, düşünce ve davranışların başkalarına yansıtılması olgusunu kapsayacak şekilde ele alınmıştır. Paylaşımların doğum öncesinden başladığı örneklerden yola çıkarak anababaların paylaşım yaparken nelere dikkat etmeleri gerektiği ve paylaşımlar konusunda yerine getirmeleri gereken sorumluluklar vurgulanmıştır. Ayrıca konu kapsamındaki dijital ayak izi, dijital kaçırılma gibi kavramlar açıklanmış, konunun çocuk ve ergen açısından hem gelişimsel hem de çocuk hakları açısından sakıncaları tartışılmıştır. Son olarak anababaların sosyal medyada çocuklarıyla ilgili paylaşım yaparken olası tehlikler karşısında farkındalık kazanmaları için yapılabilecekler konusunda öneriler sunulmuştur.

Anahtar Kelimeler:

Anababalar, çocuk hakları, sosyal medya paylaşımı, çocuk, ergen

Parents’ Shares about Their Children on Social Media

Social media is increasingly emerging as environments where more and more people are involved. The limited knowledge of parents' sharing about their children on social media (sharenting), which is a new concept in the world and in Turkey, has been compiled in this study. In the study, the information, photos, or videos of the children shared by parents on social media and the possible reasons for these shares are discussed in a way that includes the phenomenon of reflecting feelings, thoughts, and behaviors towards others. Based on the examples in which sharenting starts before the birth of the child, it was emphasized what parents should be careful of while sharing and the responsibilities they should fulfill in terms of sharing. In addition, concepts such as digital footprint and digital abduction were explained, and the drawbacks of the issue in terms of both developmental and children's rights for children and adolescents were discussed. Finally, suggestions were presented on what can be done to raise parents’ awareness towards possible dangers while sharing their children on social media.

Keywords:

parents, children's rights, children, adolescents, social media sharing,

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